By Christof Melchizedek
Daily we come in contact with others,
sometimes in harmony and sometimes with friction. When things are bumpy or
chaotic between you and a friend, family member, or lover you experience
triggers, upsets, and heavy emotions that are relatively unpleasant.
The most important thing to know about
relationships is that they act as mirrors in our life, reflecting what we have
inside of us. When another projects frustration, anger, or resentment onto
us, it is a reflection of what still resides inside of us.
"If anger comes out, it is because there
is anger inside."
Sometimes certain people really irritate
us. It's not the person per se, it is simply the person reflecting a wound that
is inside of us. Sometimes we send projections back towards the person, which
makes it worse. It is this interaction which creates the uneasiness that we
sometimes feel in relationships.
The current state of our harmony or
dis-harmony is a reflection of the current state of our bio-energy field's
interaction with another. We are either in coherence or discordance with
another. When we are in harmony, our auric fields fuse together and dance
and weave in a beautiful unison. If there is a dissonance, then there can
be walls, spikes, spears, and
blocks coming between us.
When we care deeply for another our
personal bio-energy field and the
personal bio-energy field are connected with relationship chords. These chords
are like fluid, flexible, and energetic ropes that evolve and move as the
emotions between each other move. The stronger the connection and the more
emotional our relationship, the stronger the energetic chord. When there is
dissidence between you and another it will
empower the relationship if you work on your own emotional reactions. Add to
this unconditional love. As you do the dance differently the relationship
Sometimes these chords benefit from
healing and repairing which harmonizes the energy flow between the two.
Occasionally, we need to set boundaries
or remove people from our life for our own ongoing well-being and personal
sovereignty. In these cases, we can cut these relationship cords to prevent the
energetic flow of consciousness from between us. Whether we want to heal
relationships or distance ourselves from certain people, the relationship chords
provide the energetic gateway of energy and consciousness between us and others.
is a spiritual teacher and healer. Read about him at
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the energetic cords between you and another. One, Relationship
is designed to strengthen relationships with loved ones. Or it
can be used to focus specifically on a relationship that that
needs help. The second audio, Relationship
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you cut the relationship cords between you and people you no
longer wish to have in your life.